- I want to see just the first action, next one should be shown after marking the current one done
You can define your recurrency to be subsequent but then the periodicity is applied to the done date.
I want to plan those actions on each Monday, Wendesday and Friday
You can define your actions as weekly and select the day(s) of the week. For example if you need to produce a progress report every Monday, Wednesday and Friday, create one action, select weekly and select M, W, and F for the on.
The minimum for period in advance is 1 but if you tailor your filter properly in your Review Actions Tab, you can only see one action. For example I have a Today and Next Week tabs (you can download my ReviewActions.xml under the documentation menu).